Hi Mitu,
Thank you for all the help, but i gave in last night after spending another couple hours install --reinstalling everything i could think of. That particular package wasnt in my list, but good to know in the future.
Obviously i did something that caused this and it seems to be related to the nvidia driver used so theres a pretty good chance ill run into this again at some point since all my workstations (including at work) run linux with some that do have nvidia cards.
I wish i knew exactly how i did it though...I even went as far as setting up another workstation retracing my steps exactly as i thought i did at home and could not reproduce the issue.
I believe i also had a couple ports open running to the machine for when it ran windows, but i dont think theyre open by default in ubuntu (666, 3389) so maybe, but maybe not...
Anyhow thank you for much for the help!