@Icarium81
After a few hours this morning, I plugged in a keyboard via USB, and was able to navigate VERY VERY MINIMALLY, literally "emulationstation" and then made it so retropie auto boots without needing a command to do so.
I was able to get the retropie to recognize that there was a controller connected, by going into it's settings and connecting it via Bluetooth. (This was done by going in to retropie settings and that dumped me to a bios looking screen [not sure what that's called in Linux terms] and to have that connected there.
However this did not allow me to set it up in retropie (go figure).
All it does is recognize that there's a controller connected, nothing more. Can't configure anything though, it doesn't go past "hold a button to set up"
I've loaded roms on to the micro SD card, ONLY in a directory "snes".
Done similar to a USB stick, 4gb, in to both the main drive (no folder) as well as into a folder for each game AND also in a folder labeled "roms". Again in this roms folder I've loaded all 20 ish roms directly into the folder as well as in to sub folders with each games name.
NONE of the above worked to have the PI even notice that they were there.
So please assist me, the "progress" was made with a YouTube video. Certainly didn't have any epiphanies overnight lol