Well I guess I got this figured out and on the way learned WHAT NOT TO DO lol.
Now to figure out this mausberry bit so I can get the switches to behave how I would like.....
Power = Power on and proper shutdown when powered on
Reset = when in emulation reset back to retropie gui/main screen, when at retropie main screen and reset is hit a proper reset is performed
Keep your eyes peeled for another noon post, because I've read a lot about these mausberry switches and am quite lost how to get the performance I would like.
I will make another thread for that tho as its completely off topic for this one.